So don't worry, I won't bother you anymore. Women seek the comraderie of comfort from their female friends, and often from gay friends who are often also a lot more interested in comfort than tension to a point. On one occasion, this happened to me. Such an arrangement would most likely occur when, 1 the woman was lower in mate value and could not secure a single man high in all traits, and 2 her situation allowed her to mix-and-match without penalty or obstacles. The dark side needs to be accepted and tamed. So you do need to talk to girls in a different way than you talking to just anybody.
There are some women who want the nice guy because they understand that nice means good and not nice means bad. Like bruh, I don't care about your degree, I'm getting on too, you think you're amazing and yet you're so insecure at the same time. I'm pretty sure most people have needed a friend after a break up or to get advice from. If i offended any of you nice guys well i'm sorry but this is my experience with them. We like quotes on Facebook and post things on Instagram stating we want the masochist one day and the romantic the next.
So does the rest of the female population? The only women they don't attract are the ones above their level - which are not so many. Result: 1 guy drowning in women, 3 guys left dateless. They hide their sexuality because they fear losing the girl. Compared to younger women, however, older women tended to prefer the dad type for all relationship lengths and saw themselves as more investment and long-term relationship focused themselves. Well, as you can see, things that might seem charming in a romantic comedy are, in fact, very creepy in real life. We are only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that we tend to fall off of them.
Niceness and patience are virtues of the civilized. It's not the fact that you're being possessive and controlling. This is why in dating, profiling is very important. That's what gets your foot in the door. What they do is manipulate, act like a victim, sad stories to relate, build comfort and most girls fall for them only because of the looks and think they so nice, they relate so well. They develop strong feelings of toxic shame.
Both men and women are uncertain about what women want. Because they feel powerless they want to make their life as smooth as possible by being nice. Closing Thoughts Because of the lack of strong male roles growing up, you have learned to seek approval from women and adopted their definition of being a man. But if one ever makes the mistake of complaining he can't get girls, he is immediately put in that category. Conclusion What do women want? Respect people and be honest about what one wants. A nice guy, you must recognize that you possesses power; you must develop a state of mind in which you are confident that you can handle whatever might come his way. Self-Love The first and most important lesson is to express self-love by putting yourself first.
Could you clarify that situation some more? But men aren't attracted to hags and crones? Men, however, tend to want the same, stable things in a woman throughout their lives. But if i feel there's nothing wrong then im not going to argue the point. Sure, not all girls will say yes. Being nice is being vilified because of opinions like this. Many will say one thing and desire another. Women like nice guys, they don't like beta white knights that have absolutely no respect for themselves and who can't handle not being around their girlfriends.
Women prefer men to be confident and often especially at a younger age women can be confused as to want they really want. However, his behavior is not the average behavior of the majority of men, because most men do not have such value and options among women. Put them on your calendar and make it a priority. You can pull out a chair for her to sit in - engaging. In every episode of Say Yes to the Dress, when the brides-to-be are asked why they love their husbands-to-be, their answers inevitably go something like this: He has the best heart; He's so kind and caring; He is my rock.
Then and only then will you not come from a place of neediness. At the end of the day it'll just add more ridiculous responcibilities to the table, and I don't need any bullshit like that. That it needs one to have self development but not the motivational bullshit most teach, the knowledge and skill in building rapport, conversation and so forth. He got you the blue French horn, and he made you feel love when love was no longer a part of your vocabulary. You got to be a man who has self respect and know how let the other person know what you want. Unfortunately, however, such a strategy often does not satisfy or mutually-benefit all parties. It is a huge part in our life.
As a result, you both value each other to form healthy and meaningful relationships. And I will never go back to where I was those years ago. You can still be a kind and sensitive, caring person and still be able to get laid frequently. I have oneolder and one younger sister both born looking almost identical despite their age gap. I can demand what I want as I have significant resources, I lift weights, eat clean, have a leader and articulate type personality and love women. We rarely stop loving people we truly care about.