I was not that important, apparently. I am 40, not sure if i really should give up or not. Gut instinct Your at this site for a reason. I think I am finally at the point of giving up. I almost have to beg it seems.
I am at my sexual peak and for the first month or two we had good sex as time has gone on I have done everything from beg to cry to now just wait for him to initiate. Its almost as if part of me is slipping away with our sex life. I do empathize with the men and women who have posted. Reality check my man, fess up, then we can talk. I was torn and emotionally broken by then. She is emotionally blocking her erotic nature by the wall of her resentment.
Take a look here at Your Brain on Porn. We are room mates as far as I can tell. Porn is ubiquitous and we all have multiple devices to access it. And we have 2 beautiful kids a boy 7 months old, a 6 year old girl and I've been with her in that way 2 times in 7 months. She admits knowing it was a problem for him. But if something doesnt happen soon im afraid we will loose that special love we have always had for each other that makes marriage a joy.
And today, I found out my husband was cheating on me. Firstly I want you to know that I am not a professional Councillor or Psychologist. Oh how I longed to be with him! Porn Hard to know which is the lead domino without knowing more about your situation. I gained a lot of weight after being married. What is edgy or exciting to one may be frightening or alienating to the other, and so on. For most couples, I recommend using an arousal scale. The thing is, I understand after the fact that I failed to make her feel special despite how special she is to me.
I started dieting again and lost about 40lbs now 250lbs. In the last 12 months, we had sex less then 5 times. What I found was he was also talking to men. I might also take a look to see if there are other habits or methods of that create distance between you and her. Both of us were having doubts about the future of our marriage although neither of us would admit it to the other. The only thing you can take responsibility for is yourself and your actions.
I married young at 22, before that I never really had a relationship. I try to talk to her about it but it does no good. I have ordered the liberator, and other accessories of all kinds and it all gets thrown away and I am scolded for wasting money. Get into therapy yourself and set boundaries. I dont understand why some people try to hurt people who already are in pain. I tried to get her to diet too with me, but for the first 4 months she made an excuse that she wanted another baby so there was no use in dieting since she was going to gain baby weight anyway. Love binding lust, all sanctified by the Creator.
Thre is starting to be a big lack of respect for me and our marriage too, but if I mention it she thinks Im being stupid or a typical husband. He views his sexual needs as a huge part of the marriage deal. I am 26 years old, I have been married for over 5 years and had a long distance marriage per say for 4 of those years. Nothing is too dirty or too intense or too taboo if you're in a permanent partnership. She sat on the edge of the bed and it broke. Sex used to be so much fun and adventurous and wild.
That in fact made it all even worse that it put me off intimacy even more. For example, many women lose pelvic muscle tone, especially … Read more » Thanks Rebecca, for your support and kind words. There is a lot more to life than sex. Menopause is no excuse for denying sex. The old adage, opposites attract - I consider that to be a cruel trick of Nature, and a tragedy of the worse kind. And the door has been shut and you the wife just may have shut it.
However, can I add pose a few questions for thought? She is very sensitive and every time I try to bring anything up I end up hurting her. I am going through menopause and I seldom turn down sex. Needing makeup, dental work, or a wardrobe overhaul? The topic of this post has caused this article to become my number one post searched on Google. Every time we had sex I would feel inadequate and ashamed. She in my opinion is so beautiful and ha only gotten better since we met.