My best friend in college was a black girl and she preferred white men. Race is a scientific fact, whether you liberals like it or not. There is a lot of hatred out there towards people of color and, I believe, it is easy for that hatred to be soaked up by the people themselves. When a male angler fish is born, it is a tiny creature with no digestive system. Like most black women, style and grooming also play a huge part in my self-image. I agree that the media tries to sell this image of what beauty is, and its actually working. They are likely to ably look after many children and protect them from danger.
Ps: I'm from Brazil, and people here are more acceptive with black women, but just one kind of black women. I'm a black girl half white though and I went to predominantly white schools and I remember feeling the exact same way. It is also important to note that many Latinas are of mixed ethnic, cultural, social, and racial backgrounds, as well, so there is a lot of diversity in how they look as a whole. I wanted to be attractive to them. Also there are curvy white And black women too, curvy does not only pertain to Latinas. And she had many dates and boyfriends, but rarely long term relationships because these men were looking to get to have sex with the black girl.
As for ebonics I like them sometimes they can really express emotions. Ok I'm going to be completely honest with you now and I don't want any hateful comments. Then after that, prejudice means to pre-judge, so if you admit to prejudging based on race, I don't know where you draw the line between that and racism. Second, marriage rates say nothing about attractiveness. My friends and classmates growing up thought that my type was nasty when we were younger. People who say stuff like that are just being petty, taking out their anger on an online forum because it can't be traced back to them.
All this chimes with my own observations. There are so many negative stereotypes about black guys but they are more accepted for some reason. Guys that I like come in various skin tones. It becomes even more absurd when you listen to some of the reasons given in an attempt to justify the obsession. But then, what is a turnoff is the attitude. There are obviously differences on average, mainly in physical appearance. Then compare again to most beautiful white girl you can see that the difference is quality.
Just a lot of people exist that are like the following, thank you. Sorry if my post was insulting but what are you trying Well,I think that the reason most white guys stick to a girl of their race is because they are more similiar. One friend of mine has been married to my friend for 17 years, he said that he still loves her like he did from day one and that he likes touching her skin because her skin feels like velvet. Find what makes you happy and let that be your baseline. We're just like everyone else. Its not deliberate, I just do. I'm sorry but I dress like a man and feel like black girls wouldn't give me the time of day.
One who is well fed and eats nutritiously. If you look at old photos of me also, I'll look different. Point is all women, and men have attitude. I've not experienced this thing about black women not being as beautiful. But even better, if your hair isn't too out of control, use a hair straightener. I tend to love women who don't require or use excessive make-up, don't wear contacts to change the color of their eyes, wear their own natural nails instead of the cosmetic nails and wear their own natural hair, instead of weaves. Fair enough I probably misinterpreted you.
I am a black girl and I've had nothing but white and latino boyfriends my whole life, all of them good looking. Anyway to answer this question: I have no idea, but I personally believe that all people of color are attractive. The girls there were loud and strongly opinionated. I was with an asian girl for quite awhile and heard those sorts of things from lots of girls. I made the mistake of not even considering a smaller woman in high school or college, but life happened an some of those tooth picks are now unbelievably attractive to me now. I don't care if she was white, black or purple.
Hey girl, I read your question and, if you are asking for absolute honesty, I am going to tell you that I think you're insecure. My battles with weight have been many and well-documented, but, finally, I have managed to strike a balance in my attitude towards it. I'm told by all races that I'm beautiful and I'm not saying this out of conceit but because it's obviously not about my race with them. Actually white girls are known for having big chests. Some regard it as a euphemism for a person that is overweight, some take it to mean extremely voluptuous, and others simply ascribe the term to the size 14 woman. In America, with the exceptions of nearly exclusively light-skinned celebrities, to desire a black woman is to reach your hand into the bottom of the beauty standard barrel.