You're going to have plenty more opportunities to kiss in your life. The question is, do you want to? You shouldn't feel scared or be afraid if you mess up. Though you can calm your nerves enough to get through that kiss, only you will know if it is better to wait for someone else to come along. Everyone starts out where you are. You boyfriend is probably as nervous as you, just go for it and im sure you will be fine, the more you do it the more experienced you will get at it, just enjoy the moment.
Walk up to him, touch his arm, and tell him you want to speak with him. Just because he is your boyfriend already doesn't mean you should stop flirting. He lives with his parents too, and has his own car and a good job. And then you want to kiss him or her. A female reader, anonymous, writes 3 April 2008 : hey today i just kissed my boyfriend but the kiss did not mean much becuase i was soooooooo scared.
He really dislikes and mine is kept short but not shaved and prefers it smooth. Turned out it was a huge turn-on. So me and my girlfriend were talking about how we both had dreams about kissing each other as we were walking home from the Y and then we stopped at a park I thought it would have been a good time but neither of us had ever kissed anyone before and I had no idea what to do I know we were both thinking about it but she just said let's take it slower I'm not sure if I blew my moment or if that's what she was thinking the whole time and what should I do in this situation. Our first date after getting back together was incredibly romantic. Make it special for him and you by putting your hands in his hair,on his shoulders,and other parts. If you love him you'll forget about been scared of kissing him.
For a first kiss, these variables are all up in the air, and it can be hard to figure out what you should be doing when. They might not want to kiss you because either they don't feel attracted to you, or they're nervous. A female reader, anonymous, writes 2 July 2007 : Well i was really nervous to make out with mine but it just came natural like we didnt plan it. Move them over his body while kissing. A reader, anonymous, writes 18 February 2013 : If you have been with your boyfriend for 3 days and you want to kiss that is stupid because I am 14 now and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and we are going to have our first kiss tomorrow. And even then my first kiss was a dare with a guy friend.
It was simple, and afterwards he said it was perfect and he wanted me to kiss him again. A reader, anonymous, writes 22 April 2007 : smile I used to worry about where my nose would go. And lean If he hesitates say Please? It's not the end of the world, and you're not doomed to a lifetime of bad kissing. You are you, so listen to what feels right for you too. Maybe you are a bit anxious because it's a new relationship and you want to do ~the right thing~ all the time to impress your partner, maybe it's just a tiring period of your life. You might get a feeling in your stomach like, whoah we've been looking at each other for a while. Some dudes out there are just in it for the physical action, so I'd tell him you're not comfortable.
Talking about it openly may also help to reduce some of the tension, and a kiss could follow naturally. What I'm sayin is try and talk to him and ask him if he wants to kiss If he does but admits his scareed you will have to admit to Then ask him if just you and him wanna meet up Then cuddle him then holdhands then go sit dowm somewhere Like grass just u and him, then say ur cold and ask for a cuddle Then after the cuddle look at the time and say you have to go home and get Something like money before ur mum goes out, And then go bk to him or if he waits outside Just take a deep breath look deeply into his eyes and say Ilove you And look at his lips then eyes then lips then eyes. If you feel awkward and nervous just take time and wait for the perfect moment, because there's no way you can take that kiss back. He has held my hand about 2 times now,but. We are shy and don't quite know what to do. And advice on anything at all that could help my situation at all would be greatly appreciated.
As a precaution, check to make sure you smell good, that your breath is good, and that your lips are kissable. Don't eat stinky foods avoid spicy, onions, and garlic. This article will show you how to kiss and help you feel less scared about doing it for the first time. Come up with a clever reason for the two of you to get close to each other. If and when anyone is having any kind of feeling of fear, like what sounds like your fear you and your partner may move too fast for what you're ready for and feel comfortable with, then we've got to take that into account and make sure that our sexual interactions aren' scary for that person. When you walk, grab his hand and hold it. Do everything you can to keep his attention on your lips.
While you are concentrating, remember that no loud theatrics are needed, so keep yourself quiet and controlled as well. A female reader, anonymous, writes 29 April 2009 : so like two days ago i read this, and actually listened to everyone's advice and ended up making outttt with my guy yesterdayy, and really everything theyre all saying is true and helpful. Respect their wishes and know that there are many people who will find you very attractive. I want to be prepared and not have the same reaction or wat should I do? Just don't continue to chew on mints or gum longer than necessary because you certainly don't want any obstacles in your mouth during your first kiss. Play coy and tease him but not too much. He obviously likes you for who you are, so just relax and be yourself.